The Bible actually has quite a bit to say about our words. For example:
“Gracious words are a honeycomb,
sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” Proverbs 16:24
“From the fruit of their mouth a person’s stomach is filled;
with the harvest of their lips they are satisfied. Proverbs” 18:20
“Like apples of gold in settings of silver, so is a word skillfully spoken” Proverbs 25:11
Imagine that! Words are powerful — they can heal; they can satisfy; they have beauty. We don’t have to be rich, we can help and bless others with nothing more than our words. To do this, however, we must use words correctly. They should be kind, gracious and appropriate.
Think back over the past week or day. Isn’t it true that sometimes a simple phrase like “thank you”, “I love you” or “have a nice day” has lifted your spirit? Don’t we all like to hear the words, “good job” or “nice work”? What about “I’m so sorry”, “how can I help?” or ” I’ll pray for you”?
It doesn’t take much time or effort to use words that are caring and courteous. Why not view this as a spiritual discipline? If you make the effort, it will soon become a habit, and that habit will encourage others. As Frederick W. Faber((28 June 1814 — 26 September 1863), a hymn writer and theologian said:
“With the help of grace, the habit of saying kind words is very quickly formed, and when once formed, it is not speedily lost.”
So, make time to think about your words. Use them well. You will be blessed and become a blessing to others.
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