Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ. 1 Corinthians 11:1
Sometimes we use the fact that we are not “gifted” in a particular way as an excuse. We tell ourselves that we shouldn’t bother to witness, offer acts of service, or show mercy because it isn’t our “gift.” This is wrong and not Biblical. Our individual gifts will be our serving “sweet spot” — they will show us where to concentrate our efforts. That doesn’t mean we can never do things that are outside of our natural comfort zone. Living the Christian life means learning and growing.
One way to do this is observe those with a particular spiritual gift and imitate them. I have several friends with the gift of hospitality. I may never be able to match their effectiveness and joy in opening my home to others; but I can watch and learn. I can take note of how they try to make their guests comfortable and welcome and I can try to incorporate some of those things into my own life. I can take some steps in the direction of becoming a more hospitable person.
I have another friend who once talked to be about how she had taken care of her mother when she became elderly and ill. She said she came to realize that God gave her that opportunity so she could learn to be a better servant. She has the gift of mercy. I don’t, but when I faced the same situation with my mother, her words encouraged me and helped me to see unpleasant tasks as an opportunity instead of a chore.
My husband has the gift of teaching. I don’t. But I have learned some of his techniques by many years of sitting in his classes. When I need to step up and lead a Sunday School class, I do not have his poise and natural style of delivery, but I do have the gift of knowledge, and I can work to impart that to others. In the same way, my husband does not have a natural gift of encouragement, but he has seen me send cards and notes and give hugs, and he reminds himself that sometimes these things are good to do even if it’s not his natural inclination.
In the verse above, the apostle Paul tells the Corinthians to imitate his life, just as he is trying to imitate Christ. We too should find godly people within our church and strive to imitate them. Remember the story of the little boy with the small number of loaves and fishes? Jesus used his small gift to feed 5000! Give your willing gift, however small, to Christ and he will multiply it and use it to bless others.