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About jculler1972

My husband is the pastor of St. Paul's Free Lutheran Church in Leitersburg, Maryland. I have two grown daughters and a granddaughter and am retired after a career in Purchasing. I have published articles in The Lutheran Ambassador, Lutheran Witness, and Lutheran Digest. My Bible study on the Book of Acts was recently published by the Women's Missionary Federation of the AFLC(Association of Free Lutheran Churches).

St. Francis Set to Music

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If you like the St. Francis Prayer about transforming your environment by starting with yourself, I’m sure you’ll enjoy this musical version even more.  It’s been going around in my mind every since my last post.  Remember, he who sings, prays twice!

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Peace Is Flowing Like a River

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On a Via de Cristo weekend, the speaker chooses a hymn or Christian song which everyone sings right before their talk.  This was the song I chose for my Environment talk, and I think it expresses the idea that when God’s peace, love and joy is inside of us, it will overflow and affect everyone we’re around.  Enjoy listening!

Changing Your Environment–Joan’s Story, part 2

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Amy was replaced by a woman I’ll call “Sandy” who was raised as (surprise, surprise!) a Missouri Synod Lutheran.  We had a lot in common right away.  She was a leader and an “office mother” type.  Soon we were sharing her home-baked cookies, and she enjoyed planning lunches and other activities for us.  I suggested we do something for others.  Sandy jumped in, calling local agencies to see what was needed.  Eventually the office began selecting a charitable activity to support around the holidays.  When my daughter met a needy family and I mentioned them at work, my coworkers decided to adopt them, and over the course of a year sent groceries, household items and gift certificates.  We collected food for the food bank, personal items for the homeless shelter, and baby items for the crisis pregnancy center.  These collections were not limited to our small office, as we included coworkers in the supply warehouse, and the hospital couriers took time to deliver what we collected.

Over the years, I lived through many happy and painful life experiences with these people.  We celebrated significant birthdays, graduations, weddings, births and anniversaries.  One of us got divorced and another lost her young adult daughter in a car accident.  We moved to an offsite location and had to put in tons of overtime and work hard together as a team.  When my church held a walkathon for a young member with muscular dystrophy, my work friends did not just sponsor me — a couple of them participated and brought other family members along, too.  Somewhere along the line, they started asking me to pray for them, or add them to our church prayer chain.  Then I found I could ask them to pray for me, too.  Who would have imagined that in twenty years an environment could change so much?  I actually grew to enjoy going to work.  Many of the salespeople who called on us told me that we were the nicest people they got to visit–which gave me another opportunity to share my faith.  They didn’t know why we were different, but I did.  We were all on the same train, moving closer to realizing the Christian ideal.

A Prayer to Help Change Our Environment

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This prayer, attributed to St. Francis of Assisi, reveals one of the first principles of changing an environment:  you must change yourself first.

Lord, make me an instrument of thy peace;

where there is hatred, let me sow love;

where there is injury, pardon;

where there is doubt, faith;’

where there is despair, hope;

where there is darkness, light;

where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;  to be understood, as to understand; to be loved as to love;

fir it is in giving that we receive,

it is in pardoning that we are pardoned,

it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.

Changing Your Environment — Joan’s Story, Part 1

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When I went to work at Frederick Memorial Hospital in 1990, I wasn’t especially happy to be there, but our family needed the income and benefits the job would provide.  There were five of us in the Purchasing office — two buyers, two clerical people and our director.  One of the clerks was angry that she wasn’t promoted into the buying position I got, and the other buyer was threatened by the fact that I had a college degree and she didn’t.  The atmosphere was, to say the least, not very warm.  In addition, there was a lot of bad language, off color jokes and sexual innuendoes.  I was miserable and wondered how I would ever stand to work there.  However, as a stubborn German type, I figured I could tough it out and would last longer than those who didn’t like me, especially the young woman who wanted my job.  I’ll call her “Amy.”  As a Christian, I prayed, but my prayers were more along the lines of “deliver me from evil” than “make me your instrument.”  I was working with some difficult people, but my attitude wasn’t all it should have been either.

Several months into the job I attended a Lutheran Via de Cristo weekend and that helped me change my focus.  Every morning I sat in my car for a while before work, reading my Bible and praying.  I even prayed for Amy.  My heart softened towards her as I realized her life wasn’t very happy.  Her life was filled with possessions that were important to her, but lacking in love and stability.  She was angry and took her anger out on others around her — she wasn’t singling me out.  I stopped taking her behavior personally, and found it didn’t bother me as much.  I tried to be friendly and invited Amy and her little daughter to some church events.  She didn’t come, but shared that another coworker she seemed to like and admire, had also invited her to church.  I encouraged her to give it a try, and I wish that I could say that Amy became a Christian, but I don’t know.  She left our office soon afterwards.  Our conversations may have had an influence on her life, and I continued to pray that God would send someone into Amy’s life who would show her where true happiness lies.

In the meantime, there were other changes.  I’m not a gifted evangelist, but I had ways to let others know I was Christian.  I talked about church, had a Christian calendar on my bulletin board, and often wore a cross.  These things were noticed.  People began to ask me questions–everything from “what is Shrove Tuesday?” to “what does your church believe about life after death?”  Most of my coworkers had some sort of church background or attachment, and as I talked about my faith, they began to share, too.  Then one day our director told me he was going to bring up the language being used in the office at a staff meeting, and would I support him in asking that we clean up our act.  Although I hadn’t complained, I guess just not joining in made an impact.

To be continued…..

Environment #6 Final Steps

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The final step in the environment’s transformation is to give yourself in friendship to the people there.  Win their hearts by showing a genuine care and concern for them.  A true friend does not force her views on others, but works patiently with them, helping them to question the values of the world, maybe even the values for which they have been living.  Years ago I was in a neighborhood Bible Study.  The leader told me that one of the members had originally joined only because she was suffering from depression and was looking for any activity that would get her our of the house.  One day she was feeling so sad she called to say she just couldn’t make herself get out of bed to come.  The other women decided it wasn’t enough to pray for her–they went over to her house, cleaned it and cooked dinner.  Their love and compassion had a lasting impact.  She saw something in their lives that she wanted.  She became a Christian because, as she put it, “Who wouldn’t want to be part of this?”

As we become more Christlike ourselves, and as we influence our friends and others around us toward the Christian ideal, our environments will change.  If you open a Via de Cristo Pilgrim’s Guide, the first thing you see, even before the table of contents are these words:

“To be on a pilgrimage is to go through Christ to the Father, under the impulse of the Holy Spirit, bringing others along with you.”

Each one of us is on just such a pilgrimage every day of our lives.

Environments are not changed suddenly or by magic.  You cannot change the world, but you can change yourself;  and as Paul says in the book of Galatians, “a little yeast works through the whole batch of dough.”  Allow God to use you and you will be the leaven that raises the bread.

Environment #5 –Christian Transformation of Environments

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As you look at the environments around you with an analytical eye, you will find that in many something is missing –relationships in which people give of themselves.  Remember the train trip I mentioned in my first Environment post?  Most people will not get on the train until they have developed a relationship with somebody else on it.  If you want to be God’s instrument in one of your environments, you must commit yourself to self-giving relationships with at least some of the people there.  As the environment becomes more caring, the tone will change.  It will become more Christlike.

The first step in any plan to change our environment involves ourselves.  God must be at work in our own lives if we expect to be used as a tool to touch others.  One Christian author writes:

“Once it was you and not Christ.  Then it was you and Christ.  Perhaps not it is Christ and you.  But can it come to be Christ only and not you at all?”

We are all at different places on our train trip and most of us have a lot of traveling left to do.  Like the apostle Paul, in his letter to the Philippians, we must constantly remind ourselves, “I can do everything through Him who gives me strength.”

In the process of change we will use our will, our knees, our intellect and our heart.  It is important to realize that we can only transform our environment to the degree that we ourselves are growing closer to Christ.  Ask yourselves these questions:

  • Do I have the will to change myself and those around me, not waiting for a bolt of lightening or some apostolic accident to get me started?
  • How much time am I willing to devote to prayer and study?  Think of your knees as the levers of the apostle.
  • Is my intellect dedicated to “putting on the mind of Christ” or do I have some higher priority?
  • To what degree is my heart filled with hope and love?  Am I enthusiastic in spite of my difficulties I will succeed because God will it?  Do I earnestly desire to share the life of Christ with others?

If you can honestly answer yes to these questions, then with God’s help you can change your environment.

Environment #4–Transforming an Environment

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Environments, even bad ones, can be transformed by people with ideals and drive.  Many of you have probably heard the story of Corrie Ten Boom.  Corrie and her sister Betsie were incarcerated in a prison camp during World War II because the family was caught hiding Jewish refugees.  In the camp barracks, conditions were dirty, crowded and cold.  The women were ill fed and forced to work long hours.  Most became angry and quarrelsome.  Corrie and Betsie had managed to smuggle their Bible and a bottle of vitamins into the camp when they arrived.  They started a Bible Study which attracted more and more prisoners.  They shared their vitamins with the sick and weak –miraculously that bottle of drops never ran out!   Betsie, particularly, prayed constantly.  She even gave thanks for the crowded conditions which helped them reach more women with the good news of Christ’s love, and for their suffering, because it gave them a greater appreciation of the hardships Jesus endured for our sakes.  The terrible conditions didn’t change, but the attitude of the women did.  They became gentle and helpful with one another.  The conflicts gradually ended.

Most of us will never find ourselves in prison, but we can still take the following steps to change our environments for the better.

  1. Know the environment. You must know the people, circumstances and nature of your surroundings in order to influence them.
  2. Study the spirit of the environment. What is the ideal or motivating force?  How do the traditions, organization, and structure of the group play in?
  3. Study the individuals.  In every environment you will find several types of people.  There are followers.  They are satisfied with imitating others.  There are the impulsive.  These folks are wish-washy and lacking real conviction.  Finally there are leaders.  These are the people who can be agents of change.

The leaders are the people you need to be most concerned about.  These people will use their abilities to achieve what they believe is worthwhile  Once you determine who the leaders are, get to know them in order to understand their ideal.  Is it power, accumulating possessions, or something else?  Can you influence them and lead them closer to Christ?

More about transformation coming up on my next post ……

Environment #3 How Environments Influence People

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The workplace is one of the many environments most of us have experienced.  My husband, Terry, for example, worked for many years as a stockbroker.  His first job as a broker was with what is called in the industry, a wire house.  In this situation, a large number of brokers work in the same office and each one develops his own client base.  Those with the most influence are the “high producers” and their primary motivation is making money.  Terry found that the atmosphere was one of competition, secretiveness and distrust.  It was hard to be open and friendly because the person sitting next to you might steal your ideas or your client.  Later, Terry worked for a bank.  He was the only broker for three branches.  The employees at each branch were required to give Terry a certain number of referrals each month in order to meet company goals.  When Terry did well, it made the branch managers look good, too.  Of course, it was to Terry’s advantage to get along well with fellow employees in the branches, because the more they liked and trusted him, the more helpful they were and the more referrals he got.  This environment fostered cooperation and teamwork.  Both were motivated by sales, and both could be stressful places to work– but each created its own distinctive environment.

This example illustrates how our environment impacts us as individuals, and how easy it can be to conform to the spirit we find there.  But as Christian leaders our gal is to influence our environment, rather than allow the environment to influence us.  When our daughter, Kate, was in elementary school, we had a meeting with her teacher.  Miss Vance read to her students every day, and she told us that one day Kate brought a Bible story book for the reading hour.  Of course, in public schools, teachers are not permitted to read the Bible to their students, and Miss Vance explained this to Kate.  She also told her she could read anything she liked during the free reading time students were allowed each day.  The next day Kate brought her Bible, and within a few days two other students were reading Bibles during this period.  Miss Vance said we hear so much about negative peer pressure, it was nice to see this example of a child positively influencing her peers.  Kate did not passively conform to her environment which discouraged reading the Bible–instead she acted in a way that created change in those around her.

To be continued …..

Environment #2 — What is the Environment?

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So what exactly do we mean by Environment?  It’s a word that’s become commonplace in daily language and usually refers to our surroundings.  In Via de Cristo, when we say environment, we mean people–the family, work and social situations we find ourselves in every day.  These groups influence the attitudes and ideals of those within them.  Each group has a certain spirit, and each one can be different.

People live out their lives as parts of groups, and they act and react differently depending upon the group of people they are with.  If you are a parent, you have probably had the experience of speaking with a family friend or teacher who described your child as unfailingly courteous, helpful and obedient.  Puzzled, you wonders, “Can this really be the same sulky, headstrong young person who lives at my house?”  Within our family, the love, tolerance and acceptance levels are high, and we tend to express our emotions, positive and negative, more freely there.  The family environment is different, and so we are different with our family.

In every group we are part of, certain attitudes are accepted and certain types of behavior encouraged.  Ideals emerge which are a combination of the vision and motivation of the people involved.  This spirit, which exists when people get together is the environment.

To be continued ….