“Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!
It is like the precious oil on the beard, on the beard of Aaron, running down the collar of his robes!
It is like the dew of Hermon, which falls on the mountains of Zion!
For there the Lord has commanded the blessing. life forevermore.”
I’ve always loved this Psalm. It is one of the “Songs of Ascent” thought to be sung as pilgrims ascended to the temple during Jewish festivals. It rejoices in the blessings of God and family.
There is nothing that contributes more to our happiness than living contentedly with those around us; and nothing more miserable than being surrounded by discord and disagreement. This is so obvious that it astounds me to realize how often we spend our time (whoops, back to last month’s theme) being aggrieved and angry with people.
The Bible gives much good advice on getting along with one another. We like to think that “those others” are just difficult, but guess what? The burden of getting along rests with you and me, and with controlling our own, often selfish, behavior. In Romans, Paul tells us:
“If possible, so far as it depends upon you, live peaceably with all.” Romans 12:18
Now comes what I call the YBH question (yes, but how?) Well we can ….
“Rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those who weep.” Romans 12:15
“Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be conceited.” Romans 12:16
“Outdo one another in showing honor.” Romans 12:9
“Contribute to the needs of the saints and seek to show hospitality.” Romans 12:13
“Repay no one evil for evil, but give thought to what is honorable in the sight of all.” Romans 12:17
Most of all,
“Let love be genuine …Love one another with brotherly affection.” Romans 12:9-10
Whenever there is a lack of harmony, I need to ask myself, “what is my part in this?” Do I love others, all others as children of God, and therefore my siblings? (or do I consider some of them not worthy of my interest, not as “good” as I am) Am I sincerely happy when things go well for them, and sad when they don’t (or am I secretly envious when they do well, and gloating when they fail?). Do I try to build others up, giving them honor and credit? (or do I tear them down behind their backs?) Do I bear patiently with the faults of others? (or do I lash out when they do something wrong?) Am I quick to offer help? (or do I want to keep my time and money for myself?) Is my love for others genuine (or just lip service?)
Of course, admitting and working on my own faults is difficult–but the reward is peace with God and others. Isn’t that worth the price? What do you think, readers?